The ability to become independent has changed during the digital era. Yes, we can find the answers to many of our problems and advice on how to accomplish tasks, directly from, well, anywhere – so we certainly don’t need to ask other people as many questions if we don’t want to. True independence goes beyond rooting around on the Internet, though. Independence also requires a certain amount of thoughtfulness and mental acuity, along with a personal belief in yourself that you will be OK even if there isn’t someone there to support you.
Independence is not always entirely positive: it can lead to isolation and lack of understanding the ways in which we are part of the broader fabric. However, there are many reasons why independence is beneficial. Here are 11 of the most prominent ones:
#1 – Self-assurance
People who are independent will tend to have a greater belief that they can approach any situation with positive results, notes Joel Brown of Addicted2Success. That is probably because they do not feel that they have to wait for someone’s approval in order to move forward. Strengthening your independence will allow you to explore new terrain that is outside your comfort zone without feeling afraid that you are in waters no one has fully explained to you and that feel unpredictable. When someone has less of a sense of independence, their breadth of experience should be narrower than it is for someone who is not tied up in the specific avenues and activities that have been presented to them by an outside party or by society as a whole. What’s more, as you continue to achieve things that are widely various and require a diverse skillset to accomplish, you will increasingly feel that you can take on any challenge by yourself, taking full responsibility for your success or failure (and using failures as fuel to improve).
#2 – Self-discovery
When you have proven to yourself that you can be responsible for your own actions and success, rather than feeling that you are leaning on others in order to make progress, you will be able to become exactly the person that you want to be. Once you have determined that you are powerful and that you completely accept yourself, then you will be able to have better relationships (in your career, romantic life, and with your other loved ones).
#3 – Lightened load on those around you
When you can figure out how to approach your own problems and arrive at your own decisions, you do not need to introduce the stress to your personal relationships. You also are not poorly impacting the society by failing to be responsible for your own actions since you are essentially establishing ownership of your life.
#4 – Improved decision-making ability
It becomes quite a bit simpler and more straightforward to decide the direction you want to take when you have determined that you are the ultimate responsible party who will get the greatest benefit or damage from the choice you make. When you rely on others for support, whether financial or emotional, you may have trouble figuring out the best way to go since others’ funds and hearts will be impacted. While it is helpful to think about the perspectives of others when you are deciding what you want to do, it is not easy to decide which option makes sense when you are worried about how another person will feel about it – or will possibly be hurt by it.
#5 – Broader perspective
When you feel that you are just one in a large group of people, you may have trouble looking at things from different angles. Broad thinking becomes easier when you are out by yourself, letting your thoughts wander and coalesce. “It’s good to be yourself sometimes and just think,” notes personal improvement site Hello Beautiful. Of course, independent thought is not just about being in a different physical space. When you move around, whether physically or intellectually, you will find different types of solutions that might have been concealed to you if you were more stationary or dependent.
#6 – Better value of your assistance
Having to get help from another person is not always negative; for example, asking for help finding a product in the store can be much more efficient than wandering around trying to find it yourself. On the other hand, if you can solve problems on your own and choose to do that, it can allow you to both care for yourself and help out other people as well. “People learn to trust you as a beneficial resource and look to you for assistance,” explains Darin L. Hammond in Lifehack.
#7 – Creativity
When you are truly independent, you are able to allow yourself to move freely in your daily life, as well as within your mind. With your thoughts less conformist and reliant on what has already been said or accepted, creativity flows more freely. Creativity has different applications, but one of them is business innovation.
#8 – Self-improvement
When you can really start to leverage all of the different capabilities at your disposal, you can self-actuate. There is self-improvement in terms of your response to anything that happens. You will more easily manage your feelings when you feel anxious, frustrated, or dangerously impulsive. This better control of your emotions allows you to optimize yourself interpersonally too.
#9 – Freedom of motion
No one wants to feel that they are stuck within a specific group or city. When you are independent, you can better do the things and be in the places that you want. By being able to get outside social and geographical structures, you are better able to pursue your goals and build toward success that would not previously have been possible.
#10 – Boost in happiness and reduction in stress
You do not need other people’s help in order to process things emotionally if you are an independent person – so you will be less likely to dump your problems on those around you. Now keep in mind that independence is an ideal and not a pragmatic goal as a totality; however, while all of us do need others, it is not necessary to burden other people so substantially with our issues when we are more independent.
#11 – Greater financial stability
The skills and knowledge that you develop and gather through an independent perspective will allow you to pay for everything you need today and put away some for the years ahead.
Independence in the context of auto repair
To see how independence relates to the car repair industry, we can look to a 2015 survey from Consumer Reports. The magazine polled its readers on their satisfaction levels with work performed on their cars. The survey gathered data from owners of 121,000 cars, with 41,000 taken to independent shops and 80,000 taken to franchises. The results for the independent mechanics were much more impressive on numerous factors, including the key ones of the quality of the job and accuracy of the initial time estimate. People were also more pleased with the friendliness of the staff and how much they were charged at independent shops. Beyond all these specific factors, independent mechanics scored higher on general satisfaction ratings as well.
Would you like to become more independent? At Independent Motors, we certainly embrace that value – as well as honesty. We tell each of our customers exactly what we are doing and why we are doing it. See our history and beliefs.